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Parenting a spicy one : a compassionate guide for raising a deep-feeling and wonderfully strong-willed kid

Call Number

  • 649.1 V253 (CEN, OSH)

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Publication Information

Grand Rapids, Michigan : Revell, a division of Baker Publishing Group, [2026]

Physical Description

347 pages : illustrations ; 23 cm

Summary

"Parenting is hard. Parenting a strong-willed child is something else entirely. Author, coach, and fellow mom to a Spicy One offers you grace in your parenting journey while helping you develop calm, connection-based habits that don't diminish your child's light and will transform both your relationship with your larger-than-life kid and yourself"-- Provided by publisher.

Contents

  • Introduction: Welcome to the Eighteen-Year Spiritual Retreat You Never Signed Up For
  • Part 1: Your Overwhelming Assignment
  • Is Your Child a Spicy One?
  • Name the Hard So It Can Get Better
  • Are You Also a Spicy One?
  • What Do You Hope for Your Kid?
  • Are You a Good Enough Mom?
  • Listen to Your Inner Child
  • Part 2: Embrace a Kind Parenting Posture
  • Connect Rather Than Control
  • Find Your Inner Royalty
  • Aim for Curiosity and Delight
  • Speak Words of Warmth, Not War
  • Sprinkle In Rhythm
  • Teaching Life Skills to a Hellion
  • Part 3: Be the Calm One in the Room
  • Stop Yelling: Co-Regulation and the Conscious Pause
  • Identify Your Inner Mean Girl
  • Unfriend Your Inner Mean Girl
  • Welcome Everyone's Big Feelings by Honoring the Body
  • Meltdown Magic: What to Do in a Tantrum
  • When Things Get Violent
  • Part 4: Find Your Firm to Keep Away Burnout
  • Bonus Chapter Access: Judgment from Others
  • Disciplining the Spicy One
  • Protect the Sibling
  • When Your Co-Parent is Triggered by the Spicy One
  • Healing Apologies
  • Conclusion: Inspiration for the Road
  • Appendix: Profiles of 9 Inner Mean Girls.